As a sexuality, intimacy and accelerated evolution academy coach, I have been studying philosophy. We all are attached to our identities, but I believe these divide us—and I want to play with the concept of identity: who I am and who you are – we are so much more alike and connected than our labels would like us to believe.
If we start to see each other as divine spirits having a human experience and much more than our human labels, perhaps there would be more harmony in the world…
And so let’s play with my identities and every duality inherent in these labels.
I am a mom which means I birthed my children…
They were once a part of me — but they were only half me, as they were also half their father .. but even though they were a part of me— on the day they were born, they became separate from me— yet, they always carry my DNA and so they are never truly separate—
They are always me and yet simultaneously they are always an individual as unique and different from me and from their dad and from every other human on this planet— so they are always me and yet also they are always a separate being too— a duality of both a unique individual and a composite of two parents.
I am also Doctor—caring for my patients. We go to doctors to be healed but..
But really, I can’t heal you— your body & your energy has to heal and seal your wounds. I can prescribe treatment, but your body does the work…so if I’m not a doctor curing you because you are curing and healing yourself…
Perhaps then, I’m a Teacher, because the word doctor means “To Teach”
If I am a teacher, then you are my student. My job then is to teach.
But the student has to be open: to learn& to accept the knowledge and then to incorporate it as their own. Just as I can bring the horse to water, but I can’t make him drink —so too, the teacher has to inspire the students to learn, the teacher can’t learn for them so ..
Is anyone really a teacher for another human?
So, if I can’t “teach” you, then maybe I can coach you.
If I am a Coach, you are my player.
I lead and encourage and guide my players how to lead their body, their mind & their soul in the direction they want to go—
But the player chooses their own direction— so again I can’t play for them— so
Am I really “coaching” them?
Maybe, instead, I am a mentor and you are my “mentee”
As a Mentor, I live as my body takes me— and my mentee can watch and take notes and incorporate my body’s and my life’s wisdom as their own or watch my mistakes and choose to not make those same errors… but by necessity my mentee will make their own errors because as humans we are imperfect —
If I am Flawed— then I am a flawed human existing in life as a gift of creation—
But, as a gift of creation, then I am creation itself
And if I am creation then …
I am perfect since I was indeed created — I am an individual and unique.
Just as no two snowflakes are alike, so too, no two individual humans are alike and so if I exist, I exist to be my unique self —-a snowflake with all my patterns and intricate designs that only I am supposed to have…
And if I am me— then I am somebody and yet just when I think I am somebody and begin to believe I am unique and special, I need to remember that really, I am
At the end of my days, I will be earth dust as will all other living creatures
And if I am the same as all other living creatures then really, I am a nobody— no different than any other human or animal or plant—and if I am a bundle of organic matter then I am no different than any other organic piece of carbon.
So if I am carbon — then, the question continues:
Am I carbon? am I matter? or am I really just energy ….because again at the end, am I my body or my soul and do I cease to exist at the end of my physical body and my physical existence?— but then where does my energy go and the energy of my soul…
And Indeed, all energy is matter and all matter is energy— ( Einstein theorized: E=Mc2 or energy =matter x the speed of light)
and indeed, all energy is matter
Bodies and particles are just energy with slow enough wave lengths to be perceived as particles and thus as matter…( again from Einstein)…
And if this is so — then again,
I am not my body — I am my soul— and my soul is energy and if it is energy, then it is one with the universe’s energy—
And if this is true then really at my core, I am somebody— because I am part of the universe’s energy
And there is no beginning or ending of energy and if this is so, then I am more than somebody, I am the universe
while I am a nobody —I am also a somebody
And if I am a somebody— so are you
And as a somebody, I am the universe
And if I am the universe, I am divine and not just human
And if I am divine, you are divine
And if we are all divine and we are all energy: then there can be no division among us — then the reality is we are all one
Life can’t be anything other than oneness
And if this is true, then this is really the only real truth
And all division among plants- animal – vegetable is artificial
All division among sun and sand, moon and stars is all artificial
And all division between you and me or between this person and that person has to be artificial..
And when we learn this, then, again, we realize we are all nobodies because we don’t even exist —
we are Just spiritual energy that sees itself as an illusion as a human…
Past and present and even future is of course also illusion and created by the human mind — not the divine mind— and so if that is so
Then our energy body / our energy spirit is immortal
And all the reality we believe as true is really a construct of the human mind..
And when you can open yourself up to understand this new reality —
Then everything really is possible
Life as we know it : it is all Human mind/human story
And so again
The only truth is oneness and acceptance and freedom and love and oneness
We are not our labels
We are not our identities
We are all equal
We are all one